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In A Reddit Thread Male Rape Victims Share Their Heartbreaking Stories




Rape: Forcibly having sexual intercourse with someone.
This definition nowhere mentions any specific gender. It nowhere specifies that rape is an issue pertaining to women only. But we have a notion set in our minds where we assume women as victims and men as attackers.We live in a society where we believe that boys are supposed to be strong mentally as well as physically.
Our society believes that a real man is the one who is not vulnerable, scared, or weak. That is why male rape is a topic that is rarely part of our conversations. We start assuming that if a girl sexually harasses a man, she is just experimenting. At the back of our mind, we start believing that men can never get raped. They should rather enjoy the experience.
In a recent discussion on Reddit where a user asked ‘What is it liked to be raped by a woman?  people shared their real life experiences. To say the least, they were heartbreakingly painful.

“I just felt so defeated and I laid there like a corpse.”

I was 17 and dating a much older woman. She was batshit insane and I was depressed so I let things drag on for far too long, and through my clouded, depressed thoughts I realized I needed to break up with her if I wanted to get better.
 I went to her apartment to break up with her and she said that if I did she would kill herself. I was naive and fell for it and blamed myself for her deluded way of thinking and fell into her manipulations. She said she would kill herself if we didn’t fuck right then, to prove I still loved her and wanted her. I was young. And thought that if I didn’t do this I’d essentially have someone’s blood on my hands.
 
I couldn’t get it up naturally, but after awhile she got me erect and then she climbed on top of me. I just felt so defeated and I laid there like a corpse. She ground down on me for an hour, but it felt like forever. And even though I was much stronger and larger than her, she held my arms down. It hurt, and I winced with each downward movement she made
I just felt so apathetic and used and numb afterward.
 

I must have said No a thousand times.”

Being raped by a woman isn’t cool and you aren’t “lucky.”
When I was 21 I was raped by the girl who was my girlfriend at the time. The worst day of my life was when she decided to tie me up. She told me all the dirty things she was going to do to me while she kissed my neck and whispered into my ear as she tied my arms and legs down to the bed. Everything she said she was going to do was normal to me (suck me, ride me) so I let her tie me up.
After I was tied up she asked me to try to break free and offered a reward to me if I could. She said she would be back. And if I wasn’t free then I would miss out on the reward. Later, she came back and stood at the door and stared at me. She then told me how I wasn’t going to be rewarded because I couldn’t get out. She then told me she was going to punish me. Long story short, she ended up sodomizing me with her vibrator.
I must have said no a thousand times. While I was crying and begging her to stop which in hindsight probably made it worse. I was anally fucked. Then she tried to ride me but I couldn’t even get up. I was so broken emotionally and in pain physically. She then got very mad that I couldn’t get it up which was never a problem. I was beaten for a while. Then the vibrator again while being hit.
It lasted about 6 or 7 hours but felt like it was a dozen. For a while she just left it in me while she went in the other room to watch TV. It was mid day when she tied me up and had been dark for a few hours after it was over. And I ended up falling asleep tied up. I think I just passed out more from the exhaustion of trying to break free/get her to stop. Later I woke up and I was untied in bed by myself…
 
After that, I ended up calling the police, which was the best decision I had ever made. The second I called them she calmed down and started to behave. They got there pretty quickly. Of course once they were there she played the damsel in distress. And claimed that I was beating her up and choking her, etc.
I told the cop everything that happened, which was embarrassing but worth it. They arrested her. After that she was jailed. … I had the option to press charges but ended up choosing not to after consulting with my lawyer. Being raped has ruined my life for the time being.”

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